25 things I’ve learned about accountants (that might surprise you)

Dec 23, 2025 | Business development, Sole practitioners

As 2025 winds down, I’ve been reflecting on the insights I’ve gained from three main sources:

  1. Over 60 accountants I’ve interviewed for the Accountants’ Success Secrets podcast
  2. Dozens of conversations with members of my online Sole Practice Club
  3. Hundreds of accountants I’ve spoken with over the years — including many I’ve mentored 1-2-1

Here are 25 things I now know for sure — the kind of truths that keep showing up time and again:

  1. Most accountants only reach out after months (or years) of quietly struggling. Better late than never.
  2. The ones who want instant impact? Who think I can wave a magic wand to change things for them? They never become the right kind of mentoring client
  3. The best mentoring clients don’t just talk — they reflect, try things out, and take action.
  4. Growth isn’t the real goal for most. What they really want is clarity, confidence and calm.
  5. Letting go of the wrong clients creates more freedom than winning new ones ever will.
  6. People-pleasing has a hidden cost — and most accountants underestimate it
  7. The quietest accountants often make the biggest shifts, once they get going.
  8. Many don’t realise how good they are… until someone neutral tells them.
  9. A lot of brilliant accountants struggle to explain their value — until we work on it together.
  10. Some say they want bigger clients… despite their website screaming “we love start-ups!”
  11. The most useful mentoring sessions often have no agenda — just space to talk.
  12. Accountants love the idea of structure, but often prefer freestyle sessions in practice.
  13. The most common regret I hear? “I wish I’d come to you sooner.”
  14. The biggest truth some avoid? You can’t be everything to everyone. And you don’t have to be.
  15. Younger accountants tend to be more willing to ask for help than older ones.
  16. Practical steps beat vague goals. Every time.
  17. The best clients take action between calls. The rest explain why they couldn’t.
  18. I never mind when a client asks for a quick call between sessions. But they rarely do.
  19. The biggest reward? Seeing accountants become more confident, more selective — and more themselves.
  20. Some feel stuck because they’ve built a practice they never actually wanted.
  21. Others don’t realise how much their mindset is holding them back — until they shift it.
  22. Many think they need a marketing plan. What they actually need is a positioning reset.
  23. Confidence doesn’t come from having all the answers. It comes from backing yourself anyway.
  24. The most powerful change starts with being honest — with yourself.
  25. Sometimes, just one supportive conversation can make all the difference.

Here’s a message I received last week from an accountant I worked with for a few weeks at the start of 2025:

“You are an inspiration, and thanks to you, I rebuilt my confidence.
I listened to your podcasts with tears in my eyes, and I can only imagine others feel the same.
What you created is exceptional, and I would love to come back to you in the new year for a few more sessions.
Have a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year! As I know and feel, you will have an amazing time. You have a big, good heart, and that’s what matters most.”

It really made my day. My month in fact!

If you’ve been thinking about asking for help for a while…
This might be your sign to stop waiting.

I’m here when you’re ready.

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