I was fascinated to hear a friend of a friend bemoaning the challenge of finding suitable guys to date online.
The lady in question (we’ll call her ‘Brenda’) is looking for guys 45-65, but is routinely put off by their photos and their profiles.
It seems that few have thought about how to create the best first impression. And this is the lesson I want to share today.
It’s been a while since I blogged about how ‘You never get a second chance to create a first impression’.
Now it is perfectly possible that the guys who approach ‘Brenda’ are just as choosy as she is. Perhaps they want someone who will accept them, warts and all. For them maybe it’s best that they haven’t tailored their dating profiles. Perhaps there are women who look to date guys who think it makes sense to use a photo that shows them half drunk, with a pint of beer in their hand wearing a football t-shirt that is too small for them.
But I bet it would be easier for such guys to find their ideal woman if they posted more attractive photos and less self-centred profiles.
What impression do prospective clients get from the photos they see of you on your website and elsewhere in your online profiles? If you have a unique name try a google image search. Is the person you find looking back at you approachable and mature or stupid, sad or boring?
Does your profile describe you as the perfect date or as the ideal accountant? By all means include some evidence of your personality and outside interests. But remember your profile’s job is to evidence you as an experienced, able and approachable accountant.
My tip of the week then is to set out the adjectives and description of you that you would like to stress in your online profiles, website and photos. Now ask someone else to review your preferred photo and profiles. What adjectives and description come to mind? If there is a disconnect you had better make some changes.
You might try the same exercise if you are looking for love on dating sites too 😉
Related ebook: How to be more than ‘just another accountant’.